I don’t particularly like housework but I do like the feeling that all the housework is done (or enough is done) so that I can relax without thinking that I should be doing something more productive.
Ideally everyone in the house should have their own chores so that the load is distributed and there isn’t just one person doing the work for everyone else, although sometimes that’s just not possible.
I find that the easiest way to get everything done is to have a schedule and do a little every day – if I miss one day, it’s not the end of the world since it’s only about 20 minutes of work not done, but a little and often is my way of keeping on top of things instead of having to spend hours tackling a seemingly mammoth task.
In my householf my partner cooks and I clean (he also cleans, but just tends to do the bigger jobs!) The way I look at it, whilst he spends 30 minutes or more cooking dinner for the family, I spend the equivilent amount of time cleaning up for the family so it all evens out.
You need to find a schedule that suits your circumstances but I like to spend half an hour or so doing the chores after work so that it leaves my weekends free to do something much more interesting.
Below are my guides as to when I do certain tasks which I split into daily, weekly and monthly:
Daily:
I tend to do small tasks in the evenings just to keep on top of the chores
Weekly:
I split my house into “”areas”" and aim to tackle an area every week so that by the end of the month the slightly bigger tasks have been done (like cleaning windows – I don’t want to clean all my windows every week but I do want all of my windows cleaning every month so I do a couple a week and by the end of the month they are all done).
Monthly
There are then those tasks that just need to be tackled at some point during the year, either quarterly, twice a year or maybe just once a year. I have a schedule of these tasks and split them over the months of the year so I can plan to get them done without trying to get everyone done at once